Do you think it's hard for wealthy men to find themselves a nice decent wife without attracting golddiggers?

Yes. If I was rich and looking for a spouse (or companion), I wouldn't let anyone know how rich I was. That way, he would fall for me for who I am, not for my money. And if he's the right person, he would understand why I was not completely honest from the beginning. Unfortunately, I'm dirt poor and will never have that problem!